“Does pornography change the brain? If so, how?”
This is a very important question, and one that has a lot of debate about it right now. Some individuals believe that pornography is not addictive, and other individuals believe that it is addictive and that it can alter the brain. Studies are being done that assess how the brain is influenced. Continue reading “Does Pornography Change the Brain?”
Your question: “How can I become more resilient when I deal with difficult life issues?”
That’s a really good question. Let me talk about some specific things that resilient people do. This comes from research by professionals who have spent their lifetime studying resilient people. In particular, I’ll be referring to Dr. Al Siebert’s work. He has a book titled The Resiliency Advantage. Dr. Siebert studied resilient people for over 40 years and he’s identified specific things that resilient people do to develop more resiliency. He believes that we can all develop more resiliency in our own lives.
How does he suggest that we do that? Your question is something that he’s spent his lifetime studying. Here’s what he came up with. Continue reading “One Thing to Make you a More Resilient Person”
Your question reads: “I have experienced a lot of trauma in my life and I have just started reaching out for help. My problem is that I’m afraid to open up to others and really talk about what I experienced. I feel like I need to keep up this macho image, but inside, I am torn up. I hate to admit that I’m having any problems. I’ve reviewed suggestions online about how to deal with difficult memories and I see over and over that it is helpful to talk about your experience with others. Can you explain why this is helpful? I just don’t want to open up to people I don’t know. How could talking relieve my past and make it any better?” Continue reading “How can talking relieve my past and make it any better?”
A few years ago I had a client call me during an anxiety attack.
I took the call because I knew that she was in a lot of emotional pain. Unfortunately, I only had a few minutes before my next client would arrive. I quickly assessed her emotional state and how to proceed. The thought that came to my mind in that moment was, “I don’t have enough time to help her navigate through this difficult issue. What is the next best alternative?” Continue reading “The Power of Journaling”
Your question: “I find myself more and more angry lately. My doctor suggested that my anger might be stress-related or that it could be depression. I don’t see how my anger could be tied to depression. Can you help me understand this?” Continue reading “Can Anger and Depression be Linked?”
I’m so glad you’re here!
Pornography causes pain both for viewers and for the people they love.
My name is Dr. Kevin Skinner, and I’ve worked with hundreds of people just like you to find help and healing. I know that I can help you, too.
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I’m so glad you’re here! Nothing can match the happiness we feel when we feel truly understood and accepted by another person. If you want to deepen that feeling in your life, you have come to the right place.
My name is Dr. Kevin Skinner, and as a marriage and family therapist, I have met with hundreds of couples with that same goal. Many of us, although we desire the intimacy we see in others’ lives, are blocked from truly connecting because of variables we can’t see.
Wouldn’t it be great if we could take an online test and it would tell us exactly what was standing between us and the intimacy we crave?
As you may have guessed, in an effort to help couples build these deeper connections, I have created just that.
The test, as well as access to classes and webinars on the subject can be found at my Discover and Change website.
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I want to thank you for taking time to ask your question.
I think this is a good question, and a lot of people actually are trying to figure out if there is such a thing as a sex addiction. In our current mental health profession there is a lot of debate going on about this. But let’s talk about some of the criteria for what we would call pornography or sexual addiction, and what I’m going to refer to is some of Dr. Patrick Carnes’s work; he’s probably the foremost expert on sex addiction. This information comes from my book “Treating Pornography Addiction,” and can also be applied to sexual addiction.
An addiction would consist of the following things: Continue reading “How do you know if you’re addicted to sex?”